In Times of Bereavement

In the unfortunate event that a person has passed away, there are three things that must be done in the first few days;

  • Get a medical certificate from your GP or hospital doctor (this is necessary to register the death)
  • Register the death within 5 days (8 days in Scotland). You will then receive the necessary documents for the funeral.
  • Make the necessary funeral arrangements.

Register the death

– Telephone the surgery to confirm that death has taken place.
– Contact a funeral director.
– Arrange to collect the doctor’s medical certificate of death (usually from the surgery).
– Take this to the Registrars Office (together with the deceased’s medical card and birth certificate, if they are available) for the area in which the death took place. Alternatively you can register by declaration at any convenient Registrars Office but certificates will not be able as these will have to be posted to you a few days later.
– The Registrar will normally issue a green coloured certificate for you to give to your funeral director who will look after necessary arrangements for the funeral.
– Contact a funeral director.
– Collect the certificate from the hospital.
– Take this to the Registrars Office (together with the deceased’s medical card and birth certificate, if they are available) for the area in which the death took place. Alternatively you can register by declaration at any convenient Registrars Office but certificates will not be able as these will have to be posted to you a few days later.
– The Registrar will normally issue a green coloured certificate for you to give to your funeral director who will look after necessary arrangements for the funeral.

If the death has been reported to the coroner (or Procurator Fiscal in Scotland) they must give permission before registering the death.

You can register the death if you are a relative, a witness to the death, a hospital administrator or the person making the arrangements with the funeral directors.

You can use the ‘Register a Death’ page on the gov.uk website that will guide you through the process. This will also explain the registration process for Scotland and Northern Ireland.

Arrange the funeral

The funeral can usually only take place after the death is registered. Most people use a funeral director, though you can arrange a funeral yourself.

Choose a funeral director who’s a member of one of the following:
National Association of Funeral Directors
National Federation of Funeral Directors
Society of Allied and Independent Funeral Directors

These organisations have codes of practice – they must give you a price list when asked.

Some local councils run their own funeral services, for example for non-religious burials. The British Humanist Association can also help with non-religious funerals.
Contact the Cemeteries and Crematorium Department of your local council to arrange a funeral yourself.
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Funeral costs

Funeral costs can include:
– funeral director fees
– things the funeral director pays for on your behalf (called ‘disbursements’ or ‘third-party costs’), for example, crematorium or cemetery fees, or a newspaper announcement about the death
– local authority burial or cremation fees

Funeral directors may list all these costs in their quotes.

Wellbeing & Support

Brake’s helpline is a quality accredited, Freephone, confidential support service, providing information and advocacy, emotional support and a listening ear for survivors of road crashes.

Phone
08088 000 401

Website
www.brake.org.uk

Email
helpline@brake.org.uk
TCF offers many different kinds of support for bereaved families. Whatever the cause of your loss, wherever you are in the UK, and whatever your circumstances – they are here to help.

Phone
0345 123 2304

Website
www.tcf.org.uk

Email
helpline@tcf.org.uk 
The aftermath of a road crash is devastating. Roadpeace in East Anglia help bereaved families cope and build resilience through peer support, their local group network, befriending service and trauma support programmes.

Phone
0845 4500 355

Website
www.roadpeace.org

Email
info@roadpeace.org 
Scotty’s Little Soldiers is a charity dedicated to supporting children & young people who have lost a parent whilst serving in the British Armed Forces.

Phone
08000 928 571

Website
www.scottyslittlesoldiers.co.uk

Email
hello@scottyslittlesoldiers.co.uk